uality problem, need advice :/?

I'm a 16 year old boy, and im questioning if i am gay. Since about like the age of 11 i started noticing guys ually. Some people have questioned if i am gay, but never really like looked into it. I love cross dressing in everything i can, especially thongs, make-up, skirts, and bras. I enjoy listening to Rhianna, Brittney Spears, Jordan Sparks, Celene Dion, and Lady Gaga is my freakin hero, she is a m a z i n g!. I like watching The Hills, Project Runway, and i LOVE The Tyra Banks Show. My all time fav movie is Drop Dead Gorgeous, I tend to say like a lot, and always make sure i look good. I know that listening to this music and watching these shows don't make me gay, but like how many straight guys listen to and watch that stuff. I also am active in sports, and i like watching sports. I can tell which women are good looking, but maybe that like stems from wanting to look like one. I have dated girls before, but i didn't really find them like physically attractive as much as mentally cuz like i just feel like i fit in, tho i like , but the downstairs turns me off. I have had thoughts that I only like s because it stems from me wanting them. The thought of like going down on a guy makes me hot, but i am a virgin, and I can't experiment because I can't come out or anything. I really hate any body hair tho, except like arm pit hair. I often have very gay dreams and fantasies. I often wish i could be a woman. but like i would never have a change. I just love being around women, hanging out and stuff, it feels like right. The thought of being gay, really makes me hot. I don't have like a lisp or anything or flirt with guys. Maybe im just a metro-ual straight guy, or bi-curious, though sometimes I feel like I'm turning even gayer by the day. Each day I'm turned on to guys like a little bit more than before... But would like to know what u think. I know people say not to make labels but i would like to know your opinions. Please be honest and help me!