One night stand v/s a yr long affair?

Another survey. This is for both genders but mainly for females.Ladies,You approach a young guy & u tell him that all u want is a "summer" fling cuz ur bored wit ur live in bf. He takes u up on the offer. During the course, he falls in love with you.You decide to stay wit him & after 7 more mnths of dating him, you tell him that you love him & promise not 2 sleep wit the other bf. Not even a mnth l8r, U sleep wit him cuz u can't tell him ur involved wit sum one new. Fast 4ward a yr. u don't see ur current bf but once every 2 wks. U don't answer his ph calls yet u talk on the ph wit ur ex bf 2-3 times out of the wk. Grant it, u & ur current bf txt during the day, U don't answer him cuz u hate 2 talk on the ph. Ur current bf tells u how he feels bout this. Explains that ur giving ur ex more time than him. A few wks go & he has a one nite stand. U don't find out til a mnth l8r. Ur furious! U told him not 2 ever cheat on u nor lie but he did & brk it off wit him, So I ask this of u ladies, How was his one nite stand any different of ur lying & cheating to ur exbf for a yr and a half? keep in mind that u also txt another ex. So again, here u are cheating & lying for a yr and half on ur exbf & ur also txtin another ex but yet u were furious by his one night stand. Wld u try to rekindle since u were far wrong? I will say this..he was very gd 2 u, got u everything u ever wanted, & very romantic.